14 reasons why younger men are increasingly attracted to older women?

 Increasingly, we are seeing unions and alliances of a younger man with an elderly lady. And the difference in age is just not a few years, but sometimes even more than a decade or two. In these love affairs of the millenium, age does not matter as long as the two partners like each other. The older beliefs as regards age in relationship has fallen to the background.  But one may be curious to know what attracts a young man to an older woman. Here are some reasons given by the men about their elderly lady love. 

Older woman and younger man (Source: Pinterest)

1. Elderly women are more mature 

2. They have more work drive and understanding and experience.

3. They can motivate their men well and provide the support that men need in their professional or emotional life. 

4. They are independent and less dependent on their partners. Hence they are less of a liability and companions in the true sense of the word. Modern progressive thinking men that are few these days do not take it as a threat and in fact like women who are self-sufficient. 

5. They are more stable in relationships and do not feel insecure. Thus, their men are at peace with themselves and their relationship. They do not seek pampering and costly gifts to continue with a relationship. 

6. They value money and time and have a good work-life balance. 

7. They have clearcut views on life and do not mix love with logic. Their mind is not confused. 

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8. They are more warm and loving. They have learned with time to give space to their partners and are not selfish or self-indulgent. 

9. They ooze confidence and calmness and have refined tastes that men find irresistible. They nurture quiet hobbies such as gardening, painting etc. 

10. They can converse at equal level with their men. 

11. They possess financial stability. 

12. If the woman had past relationships and kids, they are grownup and have left the nest. 

13. A man always looks for a motherly touch in a relationship with a female and he gets this from an elderly woman. This is mommy syndrome. While an elderly lady will not do all the work for the younger man, she is able to give love to her man like a mother often especially during life crisis. 

14. She is good and innovative in cooking and also quick. 

Often, such men are called sugar babies and teased by society. People assume that a younger man is after an older woman for her money. This may be true sometimes but we also know cases where this was not true. Hence such love has been successful and this cougar love is here to stay and change traditional thinking!